I like the idea of putting in terms of what you miss or what you need instead of what he isn't doing because it is less attacking. If you say you need to hear him say "i love you" or "I miss when you..." it is a lot better then "why don't you" or "why haven't you". More conversation starting instead of closing. Also be completely open in letting him know that in order to get over this bump you need him to do a lot for a while to help you heal and close old wounds. He should understand that, and will hopefully respond accordingly.


Me29 S3
H left 4/1/09
I file 8/2/10
Divorce final 5/17/11
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