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Plus as long as she stays, we really need the money

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she said she would not be putting any more of HER money into our account. (I don't really buy much, so there's really no reason for that.)


I don't understand. You need the money.....but it's not necessary for her to contribute what she makes to the family account?

If she leaves to be with OM....you better expose her to her boss! What or how would that make any difference to your income if she's with OM.......or if she's keeping her money in a little pot waiting for the right time to leave.


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!