If anyone has any idea of how I can give my W more space (while we still live in the same house and share parenting responsibilities), fire away.
By getting out of the house while she's there. If you can't do that, then do yard work, go into the other room....just stay out of her hair and don't smother. If quality time is her LL...you will have to learn how to balance that b/c it will be very tricky with her being a WAW. Even though it is her LL, she is not receptive to it right now. You'll have to baby step your way back into it.
If your WAW doesn't show much positive from meeting alone with the MC, then I'm thinking the only reason she's going is to argue her case for D and trying to get the C's agreement that there's no hope for the M. If that's the case, then you might want to discuss it with C alone to see if the sessions are hurting more than helping.
I personally believe MC only works if both people "want" to save the M.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
