Partner left after 9 yrs - 18months on, reunited !

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Thanks Kat, I think K has spoken to her. Sounds like a nice lady. I always check her weeklies as they are about the most spot on (her and Penny Thornton).

Pie.. THANK YOU! I am glad I have helped you some. I cant believe you managed to wade through all of my (45??) threads though, you deserve some kind of trophy or medal for that

My bf didnt have obvious depression for many years. Even when he was seemingly depressed, we just used to joke he was the 'melancholic type', noone twigged he was depressed. After he left me and got diagnosed, his own mother and BMF said they had no idea !! That they thought he was fine. I said he wears a front. They were amazed!

Glad I gave you some laughs too, I crack myself up regularly

So.. wedding is Saturday and its very grey and cloudy here, but dry still! I collect my dress today and my hair trial went brilliantly (long and straight with a few little curls, two think little side plaits which meet down the back and the plaits were threaded with real daisies!) I was worried I would look like a 10 year old but my GF said it looked lovely.

BF's hand has gone septic around the stitches, so he had them out but has to keep it bandaged, until after the ceremony ! He had an allergic reaction to the original plaster too, so his fingers are puffy and we cant get the ring on !! . I said to him, your 'wedding' hand has gone poisonous and red and flaky and we cant get your ring on, its like the universe is trying to tell you something !!! He said course not silly.