I find being gone for me with the kids to the park or anywhere has been great for me. Just getting away somewhere quiet really helps. I look for four-leaf clovers to keep my mind off things or to have a little more luck.
Whatever you can do to give yourself a little peace is a good thing. It gives some perspective on your sitch too.
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