Hey Bobbi,
I hope you had a good C session and she gave you some means of handling this with Dan. Same with MIL. Its almost like you a little afraid of them.. but of course, you spent years in that family, being good ole Bbj. Things change hey. I agree with Kat and the others, you need to definetly stand up to his Mum and explain she can only schedule time with the kids during Dan's time and to make sure she knows the schedule by asking her son. Maybe things could relax down the years but for now, you need to get into a healthy pattern for you ALL.

...down the years.. can you imagine dealing with this for years??? Maybe point that out to Dan.. we cant go on like this, we have YEARS of co-parenting ahead of us.

xx


Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
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