The saga continues

[OfficerInNeed]

Should I not go or I you saying when I am gone she looks for reasons for me to come back?

I am saying that she says "jump" and you say "how high" and then seem surprised every damn time to find yourself hovering in midair.

Did not think of it this way but you are right. I thought by doing this I would help lower the tension between us and W would be less bitter about the divorce proceedings and wanting to force me to sell the home.

PDT,
It does seem every time we get together one of us two brings up a discussion about the state of our marriage whether it be the possibility of making it work or a conversation about divorce. In the past week divorce has been the topic of discussion


I did go back home. W and I agreed that at the very least we could maintain a civil R, why make matters more difficult. W and I both agreed that there was a lot of unnecessary tension between us.

W mentioned about having a talk tomorrow. W seems very confused right now and I want to play this safe. I don;t plan on bringing it up tomorrow (today) but rather let her initiate and talk. I actually plan I going out and doing something and try to be gone for most of the day as I did today.