I recently filed for divorce and packed up everything and am making the most of my singledom/ freedom by backpacking round the world. Now, who is the person that has suddenly found his voice - stbxh. I would say out of all my friends he has been in the most regular contact. He even dropped into and email that he has applied for a job in Australia which is bizarre because he knows that is where I am. This is the guy who has been so totally avoident for 2.5 years!
I do reply to messages etc but ususally wait a while before doing so. I always let him initiate. Is this the right way to be playing it?
