Phew! Ok glad you weren't upset, Piano! I just posted during my emotional reaction instead of feeling first and THEN thinking! Need to not do that so much on DB forum!

About facilitating, yep I agree that your house is easier on your bub for visiting with her dad. Mostly because he is a stranger to her still at this point! In my county, they allow overnights starting at 6 months of age!

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004