Wow, that's a big step for H to actually set up weekend times. It seems like he never wanted to discuss anything about it before. Yeah, I would definitely like to see if he follows thru with it, but the fact that he seems to be trying with S, is a good sign for S's sake.

I can see your point now for wanting to file. You may want to give H a chance to set the S routine in motion first tho and give him a chance to get use to it, incase he flips out when you do file. You have a great attitude about it all tho. I guess I'm still in the "I'm the victim" stage, but you're right, both parties our at fault for the M failing, but our H's shouldn't get any sympathy either as they are the ones who are chosing not to save it. Such a hard place tho. I know I'm going to be at that point very soon, but it's still hard to put that final nail in the coffin, even if it was our H's who closed it.


Me 27; H 28; S 2
Togeth 9; M 4
Sep 11/14/08
EA OW1 Sep 08
EA OW2 Mar 09
EA OW3 Jun 10

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