I still don't get why dan is not being called out on the porn in the camera. This is not a good environment for anyone, much less little kids. This sh!t is in a camera that is used to record "family" events. A camera that is lying around, (God knows what else is just lying around at good old dad's house) readily available for anyone (including you) to look through.
And lots of people do scroll through pictures, just like they used to flip through photo albums. Jeez, it's not as though the camera was locked in a floor safe. He HANDED IT TO YOU TO USE!! At a public event, no less. He could have done the same thing to the kids.
How is it going to affect the kids if they happen to scroll through daddy's camera? "Oh, look! Nathan playing t-ball. Sydney at a birthday party! And....uh...what's this....??"
Embarrassed to call dan out? Why? Don't be. Your kids deserve a strong, protective mom, don't they? You'd probably lay down your life for your kids, but you're having trouble telling dan to keep that perverted sh!t away from them? Why?
And why down-play it as though it's no big deal? Or that it's dan's "private" business. It IS a big deal and that camera is not all that private when he asks people to take pictures for him. It speaks loud and clear as to who dan really is. And I seriously do not give a sh!t as to WHY dan is the way he is, he just IS. It's time to live in the now.
And as far as dan not doing anything "bad" yet, are you guys kidding? NATHAN HAS NIGHTMARES ABOUT HIS DAD'S ANGER!!!
Nathan is obviously a very sensitive little boy and dan is hyper-critical of everything from the poor kid learning how to ride a bike to practicing baseball.
And why does "lame-ass-I-hated-jocks-in-high-school-dan" keep trying to live vicariously through Nathan's athletic abilities anyway? It's sick.
As far as the useless, stupid, admonishing texts:
IGNORE each and every one of them. Enough of the pathetic, co-dependent crap. dan thinks he's the superior parent? LMAO!! Did it ever occur to him to actually behave like a competent parent? Probably not. He's too busy getting off on yanking your chain every single time he has visitation.
dan has it made. He knows exactly how to keep playing you like a violin.