Thank you all for the birthday wishes! I did give him the cupcake when stbxh came to pick him up. So we sang Happy Birthday, and then S poked the cupcake and stared at it, haha! So I cheated and tore a piece and put it in his mouth, he sort of liked it but just wouldn't play with the cupcake! So I took some of the frosting and smeared it on his face and started taking pictures. Usually, stbxh takes a bunch of pics but he didn't. So I asked him if he wanted to and he used his new iphone to do it. It dawned on me that maybe he wasn't going to take pictures because he was going to do it over at his place with OW! Maybe they are having a little birthday party for him and it really hurts!!!! WE made him, I grew him, I gave birth to him...I shouldn't have to share him with this bitch!
I told stbxh about my plans to get S' pics taken next week with my friend's photographer. He was surprised that I was getting them done. ???
Mystik, I am glad if my IC's advice could help you or anyone, because when I read others' posts about their counseling sessions, I learn from them too!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004