Pei, I have never posted to you, but I have been following along and you and I have mutual friends.
One thing I have learned on this journey is that success is not measured by saved marriages, it's not measured by whether or not you stood. To me, it should be measured by whether or not we have found ourselves, whether we feel strong and whole and at peace.
By that definition, you are a success.
I can see how hard you have worked and how far you have come and how difficult it was for you to get to this point.
The people on this board are some of the most amazing people I have ever known. To take such an interest and invest so much time in people they have never met, never ceases to amaze me. They want so much for everyone to get to where they need to be and to make sure they will have no regrets in the future - to be sure no stone was left unturned so that we have the best chance at the kind of future they deserve.
I know that you will continue to take stock, to look inside, to do the work.
We never know what the future holds so be open to all the possibilities - all of them.
