Thank you Allen for sending this info. I have seen some of it when I was on marriagebuilders.com But some was new to me as well. It would be nice to hear from a guy who had gone thru this withdrawl just to hear his take on it. My H told her it was done on April 5th this year. He says he hasn't seen her but has occasionally texted or talked to her on the phone. He says she has moved on and is dating someone, and also that she wants nothing to do with a married man. So..why the contact..it must be him that is initiating it..he as much admitted that he has called her to check and make sure she is ok as much as she has contacted him. I am hoping that it will just die a natural death if he physically stays away. But who knows. All I really know for sure is that we will never be able to move on with our relationship as long as she is still in contact with him. He did say that the longer he is apart from him the easier it has been to move on too. once again..why the contact, then? It really sucks to think that there is someone who could just walk into your life and take your husband away.
