The reason I haven't gone to the lab owner is that she says she will lose her job and that it will be MY fault. (I responded that it would be her and OM's fault.) Plus as long as she stays, we really need the money.
Thanks bluestar about the advice to protect my finances. I noticed W has a new bank account and has puts some of her money into it. When I confronted her about it, she says she is saving up. But of course she could have just used our savings account. Last night, she said she would not be putting any more of HER money into our account. (I don't really buy much, so there's really no reason for that.) I think its time for me to start putting my checks into a new account too.
My wife is asking for a divorce and I don't completely understand why.