Hi lola...

Definitely sounds like MLC.

It seems that they are nice when they are going to drop another bomb or want something and maybe part of it is guilt...

Have you consulted with an L?

Sounds like you are doing well with galing and love that you refi your house in your name!

M48 H53
M16 T18
S16 D13
SS30
H drops bomb PA/8-30-09
H leaves 12-30-09
D filed by H 2-10
H asks to come home 4-11
Piecing