The best outcome would be she finds you attractive and can't wait to be you.
Next time she tells you how life sux over at the new place just agree. You argued with her and she defended her decision. Stop trying to put the puzzle together and let her decide. Do you see how weak and clingy the OM is? Do you also recognize she sees you the same way? How you gonna handle that?
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.