Well, I was a little annoyed today. My H forwards me a message that he sent to his colleagues, friends, and associates today. It contained his address where he can receive mail, he asked for them to send phottos and told them all how much he missed them... ARGHH! I hate this. I feel so ignored, never once did he give me his contact information or told me that he missed me since he left. But 2 weeks ago, he that reconciliation was appealing and missed having "someone" who cared so deeply for him in his life.
The OW, I am sure was on the email (even though he says he NEVER slept with her). He then followed the email with a call to me at work. He was all nice and kind. We talked about me job and then he lets me know that he really wants to find new work hen he returns, and that WE can see about this when he returns home next year.
I didn't let him hear my frustration and disappointment. I was kind and spoke with concern. Not sure if he was listening......
Me 41/H 49 M 12yrs No Kids Bomb 1/10/2010 H Deployed The three great essentials to achieve anything worth while are, first, hard work; second, stick-to-itiveness; third, common sense. T. Edison