If your H is not living with you, and he has things in t he home that belong to him, THROW them into a box and leave them on the front lawn... call a lawyer to find out what your rights are if he isnt' living in the home... change the locks if you can...
You woudl'nt START dating this guy if you saw him behaving like this to someone else... you wouldn't TOUCH him... you HAVE to get into that mindset again... You WERE there before you got involved with him.. you need to get there AGAIN in order to combat this safely and efficiently... Otherwise this is giong to run for a very long time and you aer giong to get very hurt
