67 I am not frustrated with you.. I am frustrated with my inability to clearly get across the damage you are doing to your marriage when you play these friendly games with him... I am further frustrated with the system in general for both supporting infidelity and for not preparing people in how to deal with it in teh home when it happens...
You are doing everythign everyone who first arrives here does... Trust me its not you.. It's the system in general that supports cheating and the addiction of infidelity that exploits that system... you and I are just caught in the middle...
I am scared at how much damage to your marriage is going to continue until you shut this guy down... Until you can look at him like a spoilt child and tell him NO - time out for you now
And SHUT HIM OUT then you risk your marriage... and your self-confidence with it
