Forgot to add, she said she wants to meet with me tommorrow evening at my Dad and StepMoms house, which is close enough to where she is that she can plausibly ride her bike there, eliminating her having to rely on him for a ride or having to explain anything more then she's going for a bike ride.

I guess maybe the "best" outcome would be she fails her psych eval or home inspection and I get the kids full time, which would at least give her a plausible "out" if she really does want to take it.