Okay. So do I not talk to his mom then when she wants to talk to me about all this too? She has turned to me several times and talked with me about H being stupid and stuff. Should I just tell her that I can't do this anymore because I have to learn to have a life without him in case he doesn't come around? Which I know is what she and his entire family are pushing him to do. I'm not sure how to handle the MIL/SIL situation here because I know they are supportive of me and this M, and I know they are trying to help, but at the same time, I know that it is irrelevant until OW is completely gone and H sees the light. Any suggestions on that in which I can keep their friendship and not alienate them at the same time?


Me: 42
H: 44
DS: 22, 24
DD: 20
Bomb: 5/30/10