Jack, I think I'll just stay in MLC. for some reason I thought you had to post in Newcomers first. And then I posted about the OP withdrawal in Newcomers, MLD, and infidelity. sorry bout that. Don't know what I'm doing. With that said..what's next? What should I be doing now that I know he's in MLC, back and acting pretty friendly..no sex..can't forget that..definately not that.