Originally Posted By: dday101798
You know, there's a 'comic relief' thread of sorts over in "surviving" that had a joke describing the medical difference in having guts, and having balls, however to have the brass to screw around a pregnant woman, is beyond words towards insane shocked


Ha! True!

So, is leaving a pregnant woman another category altogether then (in the dealbreaker/inexcusable stakes)? Or is that just a fiction we tell ourselves to feed our martyrdom?

No, we shouldn't want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with us. And anger eats you alive.

It's OK to say "I am better off without you", but how can you add "and so is our unborn child".

It's just not true, IMHO.

Maybe that's why the Robx speech can't be adapated to this sitch... Because you cannot say you are OK with their choice?

*Newmama, thanks for having the guts to share your rant. I gave that one too!



Last edited by Piano; 07/06/10 11:45 PM.

Me 36; H 40
baby born in May
M:13, T:15
Bomb (OW): Dec 09
began DBing: Feb
WH overseas with OW
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