It has been a long time since I have wrote on here. I hope that all are in good spirits. I know I am. I took my life back and did it splendidly I think. I have reconnected with old friends, made new ones, and let the toxic ones go. I filed papers for divorce in Oct. and it was made final April 19th. Yes I know most of you don't want to hear that, but it was my choice to do this. My ex husband had taken up residency with the OW before the divorce was even final. Talk about a blow to the gut. But I am better, healthier, and happier. I have since dealt with my issues from the fail of the marriage and started dating again. Come to find out I am not sure that I ever really loved him in the first place. I hope all of you find your true inner peace and happiness and I wish you all the luck.
t=5.5yrs m=4 kids=4 (8,9,10,&11) I dropped the bomb 10-09 regaining myself in house seperation 9-6-09 divorce final 4-19-10 Moved out 9-17-09
