New here, not sure where to start

[Jack_Three_Beans]

You CAN post where ever you want.

You will get different advice.

Here in MLC we aren't big on confrontation. The reason being a depressed person ..your little widdle MLC spouse...is going to see that as pressure and guilt.

I personally do not advocate ANY boundaries until YOU can actually handle one.

The advice is different based upon where you beleive you and your spouse is. And none of it...none is guarenteed to work.