Hi guys! NM, by 'facilitate' I mean set it up and be there to welcome WH and be present while he is with the baby. As she is so young, she is better 'seen' at home (say, my folk's house), rather than in a public place like a cafe. Or so I think. You are not harsh at all. I guess things are hostile between us right now, so maybe him not emailing to ask about her is normal? More likely I think it is reflective of the type of father he told me he was going to be -- a long distance one. And I think b/c his dad was gone and never to be seen again, WH probably thinks 2 weeks is nothing to not enquire about a baby! (This is where our past experience really shapes us) So you can understand why I get SOOOOOOOO angry that this is the level of fatherhood he is offering our little baby!!!!! NM, I like your idea of asking him why he didn't ask after her, or her hospital checkups. Why friggin' not.
It is hard, G, and setting boundaries with all the visitors will be important. I already declined to go to an event this week with MIL, BIL, and WH. Perhaps though I should suck it up and brave it to show a strong front and 180s etc?
