So..if I have entered a post in a couple of places, can I go out and remove them? should I? I'd like to have some friends who have been thru or are going thru this. It's not an easy thing to understand if you haven't been thru it. and I am 99.9% sure this is a MLC for him. So, stay in the MLC forum, not the infidelity or newcomer forum?
ok, Jack..don't have time to figure out that quote stuff..he's home now so gotta go. He is in MLC, I'd bet my life on it. i have read for several weeks on the MLC forum. So, now to just get some support and ideas for survival. Do you go to that forum regurlarly?
Here in MLC we aren't big on confrontation. The reason being a depressed person ..your little widdle MLC spouse...is going to see that as pressure and guilt.
I personally do not advocate ANY boundaries until YOU can actually handle one.
The advice is different based upon where you beleive you and your spouse is. And none of it...none is guarenteed to work.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
gritter..you are funny too. Personally, I like George Michael. Except for that one little incident, I always thought he was ok. And didn't realize I was in the MLC forum. Hence, one more reason not to post on various forum sections.
Jack, I think I'll just stay in MLC. for some reason I thought you had to post in Newcomers first. And then I posted about the OP withdrawal in Newcomers, MLD, and infidelity. sorry bout that. Don't know what I'm doing. With that said..what's next? What should I be doing now that I know he's in MLC, back and acting pretty friendly..no sex..can't forget that..definately not that.
I must say that time really flys when you're on here. Scared the crap right out of me when I heard the dogs barking cause he was home. I felt like a little kid with his hand caught in the candy jar.
PEI, I sure can use the funny stuff. I have cried so much in the past 8 months I'm surprised I didn't turn to dust and blow away. I still have to answer Eric with the words he asked about. I have been thinking hard about it. If I might ask..what do those words mean to you?
