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I have joked with my H about this.


Your H knows about this place? If he does...ack! If he doesn't keep it that way. This place is fror and if you think that showing him the Divorce Busting book or telling him about htis place will be a lightbulb momnet that breaks him from his spell...you are wrong.

Keep this place for you, and a secret just...for...you. The spouse will almost always see this place as a palce of tricks and tactics used to get/win them back and really F them...this place is for you. You get the secret knock and handshake and everything.

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Can you explain to me about how to post questions then?


Post them here, you can hit the reply button and even change the Subject line.

You'll develop a group of people who tend to follow you along, and as some people become familair with you and vice a vesra you'll develop friendships and post on their threads.

Each area... heh...

Different areas...different advice. Plain and simple and not all of it works well together. Puppy is right though it is up to you to decide not anyone here to tell you if your husband is in MLC. check the resources that Pilot has put out for you. It aint an easy ride.

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What if I'm not getting any feedback from my original thread?


I thought you said you are a VERY patient person? wink

People will respond...the clue is: You get what you give around here, it is the coin of the realm.



Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis

Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet