She never filed. She never came home. She just continues to live a separate life. It's really quite sad to see.
In the mean time, I have gotten a life. I hang out with friends more than ever. S8 and I have been camping, gone to see Monster Trucks, taken on new projects, and I have gotten a motorcycle license.
W doesn't do much. In a way, that's good. At least she isn't hitting the bars or spending 24/7 with her GF anymore. She still doesn't have any interest to work on things though. (I asked her about it a couple of weeks ago after going nearly 2 1/2 months barely speaking)
Every once in a while, she will be warm to me for a couple of days, then she runs away again.
I just go on with my life. I don't have any idea what to expect anymore. She doesn't have the same hold over me that she used to though.
Me: 35 W: 31 S:9 M: 10 years Together 13 MySitch - Ups & Downs She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.
