If you want the MLC forum to respond to your questions, post them on this thread. If you want responses on other forums, you will go there to post them or link this to a new thread over there for them to review.
I would like to give you one piece of advice, do not share this site w/your h. This is your safe place to come and for others to respond to you. This is a place for you, and you alone, to come and feel comfortable talking about your situation, where you are going, etc. The same applies to any books, literature or information that you obtain....keep it to yourself for now. You are playing a very sensitive and unusual card game that requires you to keep your cards close to the vest and do not reveal them to your spouse.
P.S. My story is no different than any that you read here. They all sound similiar, and yet, are very different because of the personalities and childhood issues that the MLCer must face and how they deal w/those issues.
