Snodderly..thanks for your input. I have read your posts in other threads and even tho I don't know your story, I have seen good advice from you to others.

I am reading, reading, reading. when all this is said and done, I'll probably be an expert and be able to write my own book..haha. I have joked with my H about this. I am a VERY patient person..everyone tells me that. So, I guess that's good. it took me a long time to realize that I couldn't fix this. In addition to being patient, I'm also very tenatious and keep trying different ways to reach the same goal. Sometimes that's good, sometimes not..and sometimes it's just annoying.

Can you explain to me about how to post questions then? If I have a question, do I just keep adding it to my original thread in the same forum or do I post it several places to enlist the help of experts in each area? What if I'm not getting any feedback from my original thread? I'm new to this stuff.