I don't know...I really did everything they recommended on marriagebuilders.com (where I found info the first time).

Maybe just limit stbxh's visits with S instead of letting him be over here 6 days per week. BUt I am glad that he came over here instead of taking him to her!

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004