My sitch continued, not sure why original thread

[MrBond]

Hate to be a stickler at this point, but could it be that to your W all she's doing is going back to her H? Yeah I get all the abuse, etc. But maybe that's her mentality right now.

From all the writings you found in the past, her thinking is all over the place. In terms of busting their relationship, what moral ground would you be able to stand on.

I mean you really can't threaten her H because they are legally married. And any legal action you try to take isn't going to do anything because from all viewpoints, you are the OM. It's not fair, but it's the truth.

I guess the dynamic in your sitch is really different. Right now it seems like the only thing holding you two together are your kids. Start there.