Scwred up and need advice

[CPCajun]

Just a bit of thinking. I hate 4PM-5PM lately.
When does persuing work? If it does.

My wife has told me several times that I "Do not come after her."I really never did after we fought. She sleep on the couch for nights before caving in and comming to the bed. Lately she has been "testing" this. I don't know if I pass or fail.

She will gripe about something and walk away. At first,I just let it happen.Yes she would get angry and return, but several times, I did persue and stop her to continue talking. I know, clingy, needy, etc. But does she want to be persued and wanted? Is this a test to see if I care enough to see that she wants to be chased for attention? She seems to open up a bit after I stop her and continue the conversation.

Just a thought. I know mind reading, but this is one of those things that looks like it works.