Everyone has given you excellent advice...please read and re-read what they have posted to you. If it is MLC, it's a very long journey of learning for both of you. His journey will take him back to his childhood where he must face the demons that stunted his emotional growth so long ago. Your journey, will take you to on road trips to places you've not been in a very long time. It's a time where you can pick up on those hobbies, schooling, etc., things that you've put on the back burner for a very long time. It's going to be a time to venture forth and try new things and meet new people. It will definitely be a time for you to rediscover YOU.
Some of the key ingredients to this crisis are patience, time, patience, compassion and an additional dose of patience. You cannot rush his crisis...his clock is extremely slow. All you can control is yourself and your finances.
BTW, we do ask that you keep to one thread so that we all can follow your story and progress.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
