I mean, everyone told you that it doesn't really matter what happened in the past and this reconfirms it.
Bottom line is she's conflicted and all it's doing is making you confused. You can choose to stay on her rollercoaster or get off. Start doing your own thing and living YOUR life. If it attracts her back. Fine. If not, then Fine.
That's why the changes you are making are for YOU. Not for HER.
What I meant by the "anyone" comment was my question about "busting the affair" or holding it close to the vest until some later point when she might be more willing to acknowledge it.
