Piano, sorry that I got so mad at your H! I understand that you still love him and that people do crazy things when they are having an A. You could always ask him why he didn't ask about D. Maybe he has a good explanation?

Again, I didn't mean to be so harsh. I was being honest when I said maybe your H has different circumstances (psychologically) because his dad was absent.

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004