I would like some advice, hopefully a few comments from some women. My wife moved back home after a 3 mo. separation. We are giving it a chance to make it work. A little background: W left, said she didn't love me maybe never did, the usual. She dated somebody while we were separated.
Well, we have been back together for 5 mo. and she still sleeps in a seperate room. We get along pretty well, she hugs me and includes me in things with her. Basically all that's missing is the sex. We went away a few weeks ago , sleeping in the same bed. I got a little frisky, and not in exact words but if I wanted sex ,she would have let me. I didn't want it that way. She knows for me the sex is also for the contact, closeness,and acceptance.
Am I holding on to someone that isn't going to come around?
Is this too long already? Many times i've thought about giving up. A little advice please, it might keep me going.