Movin' On...

[mishka422]

Good golly Miss Molly!! I finally caught up! BBJ, there is some seriously messed up sh!t going on here and it's time for Dan to be put in his place.

1)Dan specifically said he would be bringing the kids there by 7:30a. Warn him that if he does that again - doesn't show within 30 minutes of the scheduled time, doesn't answer his phone - your next phone call will have to be to the police to have them do a welfare check on him since he is unstable. Maybe that's a little overboard but you will think of something. He needs to know that this is a safety issue as well as a custody issue. If you need to involve the court and keep him to a STRICT schedule regardless of his work schedule then so be it. He wanted this and he isn't going to jerk you around anymore.

2)The DIY porn must be addressed immediately. Not in a wishy washy manner either. Straight to the point. "Dan, last year you left your suitcase sitting in the middle of the floor where the kids could easily get in it and rummage around to find your porn stash. Now you have taken pictures of your penis for God knows what purpose and left them in your camera and the odds are good that the kids can stumble on them. You will not question my parenting (i.e. - bug spray, bedtime, baseball practice) especially while you are one split second away from exposing our children to permanent damage due to your perversions."

Or something to that effect..........

3)Contact is limited to child related medical emergency or child scheduling only. There are to be no critical texts, no casual references, nothing that is not a dire emergency. All texts, phone calls, or emails having anything to do with any other subject will be promptly ignored. If they are in any abusive toward me they will be forwarded to my L.

This man is sick and twisted. There are no excuses for any of his behavior regardless of his upbringing. He's a coddled mommy's boy who never grew up and developed these tendencies probably because he has felt emasculated by his mother and this is how he makes up for it.