Husband's behavior is confusing

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At the time it was incredibly difficult. And I still tear up when I look at my left hand and see the impression the ring I have been wearing for 11 years has left. But I am ready to detach, let go. I've been reading the "Letting go" postings on these boards and taking heart from them that this will be the best thing for ME. And if at some point in the future it turns out to be good for the relationship, great, but for now I need some control of myself and this situation. And sitting around waiting for him to change his mind while I play the good wife doesn't sit well with me anymore. Not in a nasty, vindictive way, but in a self preservation way. I have dignity and I'm going to express that now.

I think I will have no problem being upbeat in his presence - I have been doing that since early May when I started DBing. He is going to get a little nasty when I tell him certain things - like I'm not doing your laundry anymore - but I plan on simply saying "that's not what divorced people do" and leave it at that. NO MORE CAKE!!!

I am the president of your fan club!
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