I knew exactly what he meant when he sent you the 2 words: bug spray. And what he meant when he questioned whether Nathan had practiced ball, and what he means when he says Sydney had not had a nap. And isnt it funny how he always says something about how what you dont do makes HIM miserable? It is not about the kids, or you being a bad parent, it is about him having to deal with anything that isnt "easy" that he thinks is because of you. Selfish arrogant bastard.
Bbj, this is no time to take the high road. No need to stoop to his level either. Just play some hard ball, mean it and put him in his place. You are a great mom and he is the last person to criticise you. No need to apologise, explain etc etc ever again. I do believe that you need to be tough now. K