Thanks Tulsa for the insight! I appreciate that. I am trying to do some of those things and I am learning to do them. I'm having a hard time with the drop the rope thing cause we are in the middle of a ch13 bankruptcy and he is giving me money every friday as well to help me out...so I'm trying to be dim but not dark. And I'm getting it wrong. I keep getting told things I ahve done wrong and learning from that then not doing it again.
I am going out a getting a life, which I know kind of shocks him cause he tells our D21 that and she has to tell me cause I'm mama and she want to share with me.
Please keep offering advice everyone! I really need the help with this. I am determined to fight for my M the best way I can and I'm using all the advice I get!!
