What happens if you 'set them free' but they won't go away???
In my experience, that was (x)W's way of begging for help, for me to 'smack her over the head and take her away from the evil situation she put herself in'.
Yeah but I don't want to have to be the rescuer......I know you guys are reconciled, so apparently that worked for you guys? I don't think that would work here.
Ahh, see I knew I had to throw that in somehow.....In my setting her free, I DIDN'T do that for her and let her clean up her own mess. I don't think we'd be anywhere remotely close to where we are now if I did.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11
