help with a plan

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IDU,

It is hard to truly let go. I know because I feel the same way so often. I have thoughts back and forth on what I hope will happen.

It is difficult to know what someone else needs unless they tell you. You will have to see what her actions tell you.

You are right tofocus on doing the right thing no matter how hard it is. It is not easy and it hurts really bad, but it is how you deal with your sitch that will minimize some of the hurt to you and your wonderful kids. Always keep that in mind through this difficult time for you and your family.

I have not had any alcohol since New Years, and I would love to sit down with you and others on this board and have a beer. It sounds so good to me.

Take care of yourself. I really mean that!