That's all. Do I dance around gloating in her face? Do I tell her I'm sorry to hear about her trouble? Do I tell her to wake-up, get some help and recommit to the marriage and our family? Tell her about PEA's and give her some literature. Or do I just say, I talked to OMW and she said OM has another OW, that he recently met, give her the name and address so she knows I'm not just making it up.
I htought there should be some darts to deliver, but maybe this isn't the time. I don't know if this will change her feelings about staying in the marriage or not. She may just chalk it up and say she still doesn't want to be with my anyway and is still going through with the divorce.
I was going to write-up some things I wanted to say to her and post them here first, but I haven't had time yet.
I invited some neighbors over on 4th for a couple beers and listen to some music. W sat down with us, next to me, and joined the conversation. When she went in the house the neighbors were both surprised that she came and sat down with us like nothing was going on.
Then we all went to another neighbor's for a party and to shoot off some fireworks. One of the neighbors (female) said W seemed a bit reserved. I sat next to W on the deck steps for a while. She got up for a smoke and came back and sat down next to me again. We talked a bit and things seemed to be going well, but then, they always seem that way to me, because we aren't fighting at all. Anyway, started playing some rock and roll and started singing and dancing around the deck with another guy who is in a band. Everyone was laughing and having a good time.
Then the other guy decides to take his shirt off, so I do too. I've lost 30lbs recently, so I am looking thin, but still pretty soft. Neighbor's wife told me today that I looked good with my shirt off and maybe I should walk around W that way more often. She said she noticed W looking at me. I didn't notice at all. I really didn't care, was just having a good time. W went home with the kids about 11:30 and most others left between midnight and 1am. I stayed until about 2:30 BS-ing with husband.
Things are going pretty well for me, but I still am hoping that she changes her mind. Trying not to act that way though!
