Originally Posted By: DumpedforMIL
i think part of the deal with setting them free is to free yourself from the anger as well.


EXACTLY!

You can not change them or their actions. And the more you wallow over it and try and try again to change it, the more you drag yourself down.

It's like trying to save someone in a boat while your on shore, and they have doused themselvees in gasoline and are ready to strike a match, your instinct says to save them, but guess what? You can't swim.


Me 35/XW 33
S13 & S12
M: 10/17/98
OM & S: 07/08
D final 06/09/09
12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing"
06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10
06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11