The year of not my problem

[Mila]

Hi AJ, I haven't been posting much, but I do follow along. Just wanted to comment on the kids. My D would not talk about it in any depth either, just has these comments every time her dad does something hurtful or insensitive....like "that's retarded"... teen vocabulary lol.

And when I would say "you must be looking forward to spending time with dad" she would say "Whatever, I don't really care". Not sure if it's for my benefit, or if the anger is brewing under the surface.

I guess every child is different....OW's H told me that his older boy (14) is openly angry with his mother.

Just watch them and if you feel that they are not coping in a healthy manner please get them some help. They may not talk to us but they will open up to others.

Take care