Thanks for the replies ken62 and newmamma,

now that I have completely removed myself the toxic R and have learn the proper ways of a healthy R, I am so much happier.

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do want to say that it IS possible she could change because YOU did, right? BUt, seriously, she would need to change for you to want to work things out, correct?

NM, she would have to make changes for me to even consider working on things. I think she would have to acknowledge my changes, apologize, and give me a heart spoken message with sincerity. I think I have a better chance of hitting the lottery.......two days straight!

Well anyway, I will continue to enjoy my time with the kids and GAL when I don't have them.

Also learned never to say never. It may take
W 2-3 years to figure IT out. All I know is I'll be happy b/c it comes from within.


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