What does this mean?- the WH's regrets?

[newmama]

He doesn't want to be realistic about what this divorce means. He thinks everything can stay the same except he can be more free.

pretty common it seems from what I read on the DB forum....he will be in for a harsh reality!

I'm starting to detach again, though. His frame of mind is ridiculous, childish, and immature. And I don't want that.

yes my IC really helped me to see what vets keep saying--we shouldn't want them back as they are NOW...so it is best to focus on that and go about living our lives. Why would I try to pull my mentally ill stbxh back into my life? I want the healthy version back...so I share this with you because you are so smart (as always) and I hope it helps you!